21 December 2012 (Mayan Non-ocapylse)
MEMO TO: Pope Benedict, His Holiness, Vicar of Christ
FROM: Peter, apostle-disciple-companion of Jesus and doorkeeper Upstairs
RE: Off Message
Hey, crazy world these days isn’t it? Bet you’re relieved those Mayans didn’t cancel Christmas this year, huh? Anyway, caught your latest Christmas message and thought I’d send a friendly reminder. It’s a bit trite, but as they say, “Jesus is the reason for the season.” Draggin’ gays through the crèche—not a great idea. Couple of points to consider:
(1) All that stuff about gay folk “denying their nature”? It’s gonna be Galileo all over again before long, and the Front Office would rather we not go there again, okay? Just between you and me, you’re makin’ the very mistake Paul warned about (Romans 1:23)—gettin’ mixed up about creature and Creator. You keep wantin’ to measure marriage by looking to creatures’ parts. But Upstairs we smile anytime we see a marriage marked by love—period, because it’s love that makes a marriage echo God. Note to papal self: It ain’t about the parts, Vic, it’s about the hearts
(2) You’re kinda stuck on “procreative” love needing to produce children. Did you got my earlier memo dated 31 October 2012? “7 Billion and Counting: Enough Already!” We blew by the “be fruitful and multiply” directive several popes past. Not such a big priority in the Front Office these days. Plus, as any celibate worth his weight in nocturnal emissions knows, love does not need to produce kids to be love. Kids are a blessing, to be sure. But sometimes being procreative—that is, pro-creation—is knowin’ when to push back from the table and say, “I’m good.” Point being: it’s a big (and crowded) creation out there. There’s plenty of opportunity for both straight and gay couples to be pro-creative in their love without makin’ more kids. Just sayin’.
(3) About the whole “vicar” thing. Inasmuch as you “stand in the place of” Christ today, you really gotta keep your eye on where the man stood back in the day. Now, he could upbraid with the best of ’em (ever read Matthew 23? Sure you have …). But he took aim at the self-righteous and powerful, not at the bullied and marginal. You’re not just gonna put the Organization on the wrong side of history, Vic, you’re putting us on the wrong side of Jesus. Not a big hit Up Here. Word to the wise: just zip it for a while. Silence is golden.
(4) Lastly, on a personal note, since it’s technically my seat you’re sittin’ in. It’s not always about flying; mostly it’s about “falling with style” (Gospel according to Buzz Lightyear), or as we say Upstairs, falling with grace. You know me: Ol’ “walk-on-water-Pete.” Mister, Jerusalem? No way, José. Deny the man? Never! And then the damn cock crowed. The thing about always being out in front of the pack, is your mess-ups are pretty much out in front, too. The gospel writers made sure I came out smelling like dead fish as often as I smelled like roses. Cause the message, Vic—especially at Christmas time—is not about judgment. It’s about grace. You’re off message, my friend. And the Front Office would appreciate it if you’d clean the egg off your face, and get back to the Grace thing.
Peace in the holidays!
Pete—a.k.a., the Rock
David R. Weiss is the author of To the Tune of a Welcoming God: Lyrical reflections on sexuality, spirituality and the wideness of God’s welcome(2008, Langdon Street Press). He and Margaret have a blended family of five children, five grandchildren, and assorted animals that approximate a peaceable kingdom. A theologian, writer, poet and hymnist, David is committed to doing “public theology” around issues of sexuality, justice, diversity, and peace. He lives in St. Paul and speaks on college campuses and at church and community events. Reach him at email@example.com. Read more at www.tothetune.com where he blogs under the theme, “Full Frontal Faith: Erring on the Edge of Honest.”